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Gaining Full Custody After Filing For Divorce On Grounds Of Abandonment

  • By Laura Spencer Coleman
  • 15 Feb, 2017
Divorce and Abandonment
If you're thinking of filing for divorce after your spouse abandoned you, you may be wondering how to gain full custody of your children. As you might assume, the fact that your spouse abandoned you will likely affect your chances of being granted full custody by the court. Before you make any decisions, take a look at what abandonment means in Florida, and how you can get started on the process of seeking full custody of your children.

Two Types of Marital Abandonment

In Florida, there are two types of abandonment during a marriage that are grounds for divorce. The one that is most well known is actual abandonment, in which one spouse chooses to pack up his or her things and leave the home. With actual abandonment, the spouse who leaves does not have the intention to ever return home.

The other type of abandonment that leads to a divorce is constructive abandonmentThis is when the spouse does not physically leave the house but withholds something important from the other spouse for a year or more. This could be sexual relations, money or any other element that is considered important in marriage. Physical or mental abuse and adultery could also be considered constructive abandonment.

If you're not sure which of these definitions fits your situation, talking to a family lawyer can help you find out if your situation qualifies as abandonment.

Full Custody After Marital Abandonment

If your spouse has abandoned you and you're seeking a full custody arrangement after your divorce is finalized, you may have an advantage in Florida courts. This is because the court is not likely to look favorably on a parent who has deserted his or her family.

Right now, you have de facto custody. This means you automatically have full custody of your children because you're the only one caring for them. Continue to be their sole custodial parent as you get legal help with the divorce. As long as this situation is seen as being in the best interest of the child or children, the court will likely keep it this way, giving you a good chance of getting full custody. Always remember: even if you have full custody of your children and your spouse has abandoned the family, he or she is not free from the responsibility of paying child support. 

If your divorce situation is complicated, you may need to compose a parenting plan with an experienced family lawyer. 

Laura Spencer Coleman can help you file your petition for dissolution of marriage, compose your parenting plan, and negotiate 
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